“Welcoming 2020 with the
Best of the Old & the New, from Simplicity to Complexity”

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2020 Publication

Chinese New Year 2020 experience

On the 7th day of Chinese New Year, a Friday of 21st Jan 2020, I wasn't really aware of the day as I've been very busy at Blue Boy Mansion, not visiting any family members yet as most are out of KL, daughters in USA, sons in Singapore with one getting married to a nice Canadian girl in Toronto Canada this year and will probably move there the following year. Other extended family members in Malaysia are also either in Penang or Kuantan and I didn't want to be caught in traffic jams so I do visitations towards the end of the 15 days celebration!

I was reminded that it was the 7th day of Chinese New Year by a message from my two friends(Jack Lim & Sharizal Shaarani) who are trustees of the Bukit Bintang Foundation which can be read here. Now, being the 7th day with my lucky number as shared in my old Story of 7, I was wondering what was the special miracle that normally happens to me with the number 7? I couldn't think of any as I was just busy at Blue Boy Mansion as the appointed Internal Auditor meeting with one humble employee at the new management office that is just close to my new office at Blue Boy Mansion.

I got back home early to work on the details of my online book while awaiting for our India programmers to complete the special online reader site planned in our earlier discussions. I spent the time to watch this video from the Information Philosopher who has a whole series of videos he has been creating who is not only a brilliant scientist but look at the way how he presents the science that he knows using modern-day technology

I was flabbergasted or struck with awe that this Robert Doyle who has been one of the latest scientists I have included in my 7-year research to help me understand Human Consciousness on the Spirit aspect of life explained it very well in terminologies or language that I've already become accustomed to that scientists use from my extensive research! I value this especially when it comes from western scientists that I in the eastern part of the world accept the Spirit more simply by faith with an open mind. This is compared to many in the western world who holds beliefs based on scientific research but these beliefs make them more close-minded when no evidence can be produced by scientists that the Spirit does exist and they quickly reject the existence of a God.

What a great start to the year 2020 that I feel I have really achieved optimal vision shared in my introduction below. There were many physical and mental experiences I went through in life to find greater meaning and purpose simply by wanting to be helpful and better serve another with greater challenges than I have. I know how Archimedes felt when he ran out from the bathtub to the streets shouting 'Eureka' for his discovery of understanding the buoyant force! In fact I can finish this post now to go for my swim in a nearby pool that was not possible recently due to heavy rain in Kuala Lumpur!

2019 Publication


Mohamad Tajuddin


Azizan Said

With Bukit Bintang Foundation leaders

Working with people with a heart and interest for our Community

From our HQ in Blue Boy Centre working with locals & the world!

Online and offline!

"The Journey to Bethlehem" by The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints 

A major Transformation Project of buildings and people started in the heart of the Kuala Lumpur, Bukit Bintang district. Click here for an ongoing progress report of Blue Boy Mansion.

4th Liberalism Conference in Malaysia

Wow!...was caught by surprise when my oldest son announced his engagement on 31Dec2018 of Canada time when it was already 1Jan2019 in Malaysia. About time since I made this VIDEO last year!

2018 Publication

The old boys and girls of SJI chose love & peace

For Dec 8 SJI reunion event, click to view 

VIDEO 1       VIDEO 2 



I have the motivation to help the country with the same belief I shared with my oldest son when he was young. He is flying high today with a top career in Singapore not even as a PR but with a work permit same way he wasn't a PR as a student but had a student pass. Click the video below that is auto-timed, to hear the last part of his speech as to what his dad had taught him:

I believe in having Free Agency to choose one's own destiny so today I have a colorful family who made their own choices what they want to be, where they want to live with a simple belief I shared with them since young. You can hear or sense this belief through the music and in our cheer at the end of the video below:

Yes, there was a slight blooper at the end of the video which goes to show that none of us are perfect. However, that doesn't mean that we cannot be a united close family. I merely freely passed good habits from thoughts to actions to them, as I perceive them in my own Consciousness. The most important habit I hope they can master on their own is the habit of Life Long Learning and to pass it on to others so that the next and next next-generation onwards can know how to overcome their own battles of the day in our fast-changing world!

2017 Publication

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At my apartment, Kuala Lumpur

At the JW Marriott, Kuala Lumpur

2016 Publication

Power to Change Lives

From a Technopreneur to a Managementpreneur and today a Socialpreneur 
(Social Entrepreneur is the full description and you can watch this video about it)

The Art of Sun Fu, the best of the East (Meizhou Howard Johnson, China)

The Science of Sun Fu, the best of the West (Provo Marriott, USA )

The Harmony of Sun Fu, the best of the East and West (Logan, Shingo Institute in Utah State University)


My team today is focused on a Vision of positive Change that is rapid and sustainable for individuals as well as organizations. We will use 3 modalities from ancient philosophy combined with optimal use of modern-day technology and up-to-date information that is scientifically verified. 

My writings could be categorized into the BODY MIND SPIRIT (BMS) aspects or three dimensions of my life discovered when I was in New York City of USA as shared here.  The three dimensions of my life also began to be linked to my Chinese name (张山福) spelled in English with the acronym CSF arranged in the Chinese order with the surname first (CHONG Sun Fu) and not the Western order (Sun Fu CHONG). This link was color coded where red represented the Body, blue for the Mind and green for the Spirit. (Note: My name recorded at birth as Chong Sun Fu did not follow the official romanization system for Standard Chinese in mainland China known as Hanyu Pinyin where my name would have been spelled as Zhang Shan Fu.)

My interest in life was added to sync with the initials of my name which also correlates with my understanding of each of the dimensions of my life. This means I understand the Body has the interest to Connect, the Mind to Synergize and the Spirit to Futurize. This became an icon seen at the bottom of each page of my original Heart and Mind website as displayed below (They were originally written for PC view only with gradual conversion of each page such as this one)  :

Connect * Synergize * Futurize

Connect - When you connect, there seems to be a link created between two entities to enable them to understand and appreciate each other. From the time I was born, I sought to connect to all kinds of people from all walks of life and my body began to be charged up to become filled with passion and love for others

Synergize - As I matured, my mind seemed to make sense of all the experiences and knowledge that it was absorbing like a sponge. At first, they didn't make much sense and often times had to be rote learned or memorized but like musical notes learned without meaning at first, beautiful music began to appear that flowed naturally or in harmony, metaphorically speaking to allow the different people, entities or modalities to create more common sense, beauty, results, and even relentless energy. The whole is greater than the sum of its parts. 

Futurize - As time moved on, I found myself surprisingly becoming a creator of the future, to realize that like everyone else, we are all creating something new in time, a new relationship, a new baby, a new story and sometimes even a new understanding, concept or tribe that can change the world for the better!

Hence the Chronicles of FamilylaneFastlane and Spiritlane were subconsciously created to be the information storage sites of my life's experiences. They lead to my journals or personal history of my life covering the 3 unique or different modalities that I had realized existed in life. The result after 40 years of detailed recording in my 3 journals created this landing page to access all my journals WWW.LOVELEARNLIGHT.COM with the publication of my first book that will be announced here soon. It will be based on my "ShanFu-Consciousness" paradigm of the complete Body Mind Spirit of Man, based on my life's experiences in all three dimensions recorded in my journals.

Recording the results of each separately allows me to identify the characteristics of each that are unique from the others. Combining them creates a unique tapestry of my three-dimensional life that I feel has helped increase my understanding of who I am and why I behave the way I do or why I am capable of doing what I am able to do. My own writings here summarizes how I value time and why self-discipline is necessary for my life to achieve self-mastery as opposed to the way education manufactures graduates with a certificate. Education can only give you the basics, self-mastery will give you a 'black belt' to achieve Optimal Performance and Thinking(OPT) required in this fast-changing world of ours today! Hence a new OPTION arises for individuals and organizations, even nations, to choose from that which will better prepare us for the challenges and opportunities in the life of the 21st Century!

The whole is greater than the sum of its parts indeed. (Click here to see how others explain it.)

From the journals of living in three dimensions :

Familylane (Body)

Kuala Lumpur 1958

Kuala Lumpur 2002 

Singapore 2014
For the latest click here.

Fastlane (Mind)

Kuala Lumpur 1985

Las Vegas 1996

Logan 2016

Spiritlane (Spirit)

New Zealand 1980

Malaysia 1994

Australia 2014

The seeds of TalkLane in the early years :

Media Coverage

Press and Publications :

(Click here for a full list of media and press coverage)

Passing the million views milestone of my writings in social media 

Reported by Google analytics 

(Click here for the google search results of his pen name "Dad the KL City Kid")

After the milestone achievement above, Talklane is born!

I look forward to meeting you!

Let's sit and talk!

With the Singapore Country Head of DBS bank :

Profile of Mr. Sim S. Lim

A follow up story on Mr. Sim S. Lim on video was produced by The Straits Times. Click here to read the write-up or watch the video here.

More TalkLane videos: How this media is being tested in different environments, situations or countries can be viewed here.

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