“2022 The Year of OPT - 
Optimal Performance & Thinking

Vote for Rafizi Ramli of PKR
Click 2018 or 2022 to hear him speak!

Family and Friends are Forever

I look forward to meeting you
Live in Person

2022 March 20 USA time
Became Grandpa for the 3rd time!

2022 March
COVID-19 scandal finally exposed in Malaysia media since the start of 2020 when it all began.

Click here or the photo above to read or more international responses here.

Chinese New Year, the Year of the Tiger

Here's wishing everyone a Happy New Year of the Tiger!

My last year of the dog was only in 2018 shared in the photo below

Yes MrPOI.Me is doing his best to save the people and country of Malaysia from CORRUPTION & BIASNESS to eventually travel the world to share with others how to do it!


Click here or the pic above to learn about the Power of Interaction for any success in life!

At Blue Boy Mansion in Kuala Lumpur:

Why were these young photographers gathered at Blue Boy Mansion? Upon my enquiry, they informed me of their interest to photograph the outside and inside of the building in appreciation of heritage and culture. I was impressed with the quality of these young citizens of our country!

In Petaling Jaya:  Meeting up with an old friend from school days not met for years!

Architect Andrew Koh and wife.

Year of Covid-19

Sufficient for the year, for my family & friends who may desire more passion in life! Maybe I can share one link from my years of self-reflection of my own life, lest I forget.

2019 Publication


Mohamad Tajuddin

Zunar - video

Azizan Said

With Bukit Bintang Foundation leaders

Working with people with a heart and mind genuinely interested for the advancement of our Community. (Postdated 30 May 2020 article from ex-deputy minister, Mr Liew Chin Tong, introduced in the video above, of what Malaysians need to be aware of for the progress of the country. Click here to read.)

From our HQ in Blue Boy Centre working with locals & the world!

Online and offline!

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"The Journey to Bethlehem" by The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints 

A major Transformation Project of buildings and people started in the heart of the Kuala Lumpur, Bukit Bintang district. Click here for an ongoing progress report of Blue Boy Mansion.

4th Liberalism Conference in Malaysia

Wow!...was caught by surprise when my oldest son announced his engagement on 31Dec2018 of Canada time when it was already 1Jan2019 in Malaysia. About time since I made this VIDEO last year!

2018 Publication

The old boys and girls of SJI chose love & peace

For Dec 8 SJI reunion event, click to view 

VIDEO 1       VIDEO 2 



I have the motivation to help the country with the same belief I shared with my oldest son when he was young. He is flying high today with a top career in Singapore not even as a PR but with a work permit same way he wasn't a PR as a student but had a student pass. Click the video below that is auto-timed, to hear the last part of his speech as to what his dad had taught him:

I believe in having Free Agency to choose one's own destiny so today I have a colorful family who made their own choices what they want to be, where they want to live with a simple belief I shared with them since young. You can hear or sense this belief through the music and in our cheer at the end of the video below:

Yes, there was a slight blooper at the end of the video which goes to show that none of us are perfect. However, that doesn't mean that we cannot be a united close family. I merely freely passed good habits from thoughts to actions to them, as I perceive them in my own Consciousness. The most important habit I hope they can master on their own is the habit of Life Long Learning and to pass it on to others so that the next and next next-generation onwards can know how to overcome their own battles of the day in our fast-changing world!

Family and Friends are the treasures of my life!

2017 Publication

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At my apartment, Kuala Lumpur

At the JW Marriott, Kuala Lumpur

2016 Publication

Power to Change Lives

From a Technopreneur to a Managementpreneur and today a Socialpreneur 
(Social Entrepreneur is the full description and you can watch this video about it)

The Art of Sun Fu, the best of the East (Meizhou Howard Johnson, China)

The Science of Sun Fu, the best of the West (Provo Marriott, USA )

The Harmony of Sun Fu, the best of the East and West (Logan, Shingo Institute in Utah State University)


My team today is focused on a Vision of positive Change that is rapid and sustainable for individuals as well as organizations. We will use 3 modalities from ancient philosophy combined with optimal use of modern-day technology and up-to-date information that is scientifically verified. 

My writings could be categorized into the BODY MIND SPIRIT (BMS) aspects or three dimensions of my life discovered when I was in New York City of USA as shared here.  The three dimensions of my life also began to be linked to my Chinese name (张山福) spelled in English with the acronym CSF arranged in the Chinese order with the surname first (CHONG Sun Fu) and not the Western order (Sun Fu CHONG). This link was color coded where red represented the Body, blue for the Mind and green for the Spirit. (Note: My name recorded at birth as Chong Sun Fu did not follow the official romanization system for Standard Chinese in mainland China known as Hanyu Pinyin where my name would have been spelled as Zhang Shan Fu.)

My interest in life was added to sync with the initials of my name which also correlates with my understanding of each of the dimensions of my life. This means I understand the Body has the interest to Connect, the Mind to Synergize and the Spirit to Futurize. This became an icon seen at the bottom of each page of my original Heart and Mind website as displayed below (They were originally written for PC view only with gradual conversion of each page such as this one)  :

Connect * Synergize * Futurize

Connect - When you connect, there seems to be a link created between two entities to enable them to understand and appreciate each other. From the time I was born, I sought to connect to all kinds of people from all walks of life and my body began to be charged up to become filled with passion and love for others

Synergize - As I matured, my mind seemed to make sense of all the experiences and knowledge that it was absorbing like a sponge. At first, they didn't make much sense and often times had to be rote learned or memorized but like musical notes learned without meaning at first, beautiful music began to appear that flowed naturally or in harmony, metaphorically speaking to allow the different people, entities or modalities to create more common sense, beauty, results, and even relentless energy. The whole is greater than the sum of its parts. 

Futurize - As time moved on, I found myself surprisingly becoming a creator of the future, to realize that like everyone else, we are all creating something new in time, a new relationship, a new baby, a new story and sometimes even a new understanding, concept or tribe that can change the world for the better!

Hence the Chronicles of FamilylaneFastlane and Spiritlane were subconsciously created to be the information storage sites of my life's experiences. They lead to my journals or personal history of my life covering the 3 unique or different modalities that I had realized existed in life.

Recording the results of each separately allows me to identify the characteristics of each that are unique from the others. Combining them creates a unique tapestry of my three-dimensional life that I feel has helped increase my understanding of who I am and why I behave the way I do or why I am capable of doing what I am able to do. My own writings here summarizes how I value time and why self-discipline is necessary for my life to achieve self-mastery as opposed to the way education manufactures graduates with a certificate. Education can only give you the basics, self-mastery will give you a 'black belt' to achieve Optimal Performance and Thinking(OPT) required in this fast-changing world of ours today! Hence a new OPTION arises for individuals and organizations, even nations, to choose from that which will better prepare us for the challenges and opportunities in the life of the 21st Century!

The whole is greater than the sum of its parts indeed. (Click here to see how others explain it.)

From the journals of living in three dimensions :

Familylane (Body)

Kuala Lumpur 1958

Kuala Lumpur 2002 

Singapore 2014
For the latest click here.

Fastlane (Mind)

Kuala Lumpur 1985

Las Vegas 1996

Logan 2016

Spiritlane (Spirit)

New Zealand 1980

Malaysia 1994

Australia 2014

Community (Heart)

Legal Case Details

The seeds of TalkLane in the early years :

Media Coverage

Press and Publications :

(Click here for a full list of media and press coverage)

Passing the million views milestone of my writings in social media 

Reported by Google analytics 

(Click here for the google search results of his pen name "Dad the KL City Kid" and here for results by images)

After the milestone achievement above, Talklane is born to give support to Politicians like Rafizi Ramli for the 2022 Elections in Malaysia!

I look forward to meeting you!

Let's sit and talk!

With the Singapore Country Head of DBS bank :

Profile of Mr. Sim S. Lim

A follow up story on Mr. Sim S. Lim on video was produced by The Straits Times. Click here to read the write-up or watch the video here.

More TalkLane videos: How this media is being tested in different environments, situations or countries can be viewed here.

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